How to maintain happiness for a better person

     

Everyone’s constantly looking for a quick fix to depression and sadness. With this depression and sadness all around, it is very difficult to maintain a happiness and to be better person and stay positive attitude. Most of us do not believe that we can be happy no matter what the external circumstance.Happiness tells who you are. Many of us are aspiring to achieve and acquire happiness, some are just for fun and enjoy life but others are to be a better person.When someone asks how are you? What would you say? Your answer is usually no more than a few words. And yet, that short responses tells a lot about you - about your attitude.

 Your response can be classified into three categories: negative, mediocre and positive.

The negative replies include phrases such as lousy, terrible, i'm tired, it's not my day, thank god it's Friday, don't ask. When someone responds with these, I know, I'm in trouble, that person is going to unleash a multitude of  complaints and make me sorry for asking how are you? In the first place, Is this a way to live your life? Are you beginning to see how these negative phrases can poison your attitude and turn off other people?

Those in the mediocre group are step up from the negative bunch - but they still have plenty of room for improvement. Here are some things they say; "I'm okay", "not too bad", "Could be worse?", " same old", and "fine". Do you really want to spend a lot time with someone who thinks that life is "not too bad"?. Is that the person you want to do business with? When we use words like these, we also diminish our energy. These people sound like they haven't slept in two days. People who use mediocre words will develop a mediocre attitude and get mediocre results. And I know you don't want that.

Then, there's the positive approach. These are the enthusiastic people who say; "terrific", "fantastic","great","excellent","super", those who use positive words like these have a bounce in their step and you fell a better just by being around them. These are the people I look forward to meeting today. These are the people who are more likely to get my business. Why not go back and re-read the negative list and mediocre list. Say them out loud. How do you feel? Hummed out, for sure! You see, if the given choice, I'd rather be around people who are positive and full of life. As opposed to those who are negative and listless. A smile is an inexpensive way to improve your looks. So just smile, Spread positive vibes and happiness. 


This article may help you a lot.